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Primary Topics in a Jar is back!
Grab Primary Topics in a Jar 🫙 for just $1 per Question!
From today until January 31, 2026 you can get Primary Topics in a Jar for just $1 per question!
What is Primary Topics in a Jar?
Primary Topics in a Jar is a question and answer-style activity designed for your Primary age child between the ages of 5 and 7 years-old. It was modeled after my most popular digital download, the Puberty Topics in a Jar.
If you have a child between the ages of 5 and 7 years-old and want to begin having the talks about reproduction, gender, body parts, and social and emotional skill building then this is the activity you need!
✅It’s 30 questions with answers that allow you to build your confidence to age-appropriately start talking about sex, sexuality, and sexual health. And because you’re starting in the Primary age, you won’t be saying the word sex!
Whether you’ve had zero talks about Where Babies Come From, defining a public versus private space, and developing bodily autonomy or you’ve been leading the talks since your kid was 4 years-old, you will find this activity taps into your kid’s curiosity.
Young kids are excited to talk to their parents and they want to ask you their questions! They’ll be thrilled when you introduce this activity! Take advantage of this opportunity to show your kid you want to give them accurate information and you’re willing to talk about these topics.
When I introduced this activity to my almost 7 year-old, she was eager to get started. After doing one question she asked if we could do another and then said that she wanted to go through all 30 questions that night! 😅
This activity can help you if you’ve got 3 minutes a day and you’re:
struggling to say medically-accurate terms in front of your child.
having difficulty finding the right words to explain reproduction.
unsure what talks are appropriate at this age.
looking to encourage your child to ask you their questions.
trying to strengthen the lines of communication between you and your child.
Primary Topics in a Jar is an easy way to pro-actively prepare yourself for the talks coming up in the Intermediate age. It’ll give you the space and time to build your confidence while laying a solid foundation to the future talks!
Where can I find Primary Topics in a Jar?
On February 1, 2026 it will ONLY be available inside The Complete Guide to the Early Talks and Top Talks! If you have already purchased the Guide to the Early Talks or Top Talks - you’ve already got it! Just log-in to your account and download it today!
Due to popular demand, I’m pulling the activity outside of the guides so you can get Primary Topics in a Jar without having to purchase the Complete Guide to the Early Talks.
Starting today, January 22 and running through January 31, 2026 you can get Primary Topics in a Jar for just $1 per question!
Here’s what parents have to say:
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Should You Start Primary Topics in a Jar?
If you’ve got a kid between the ages of 5 and 7 years-old - YES go for it!!
But if you’re hesitant to get started having the early sex talks, check out this 1 minute reel to learn more about what Primary Topics in a Jar is all about!
What if my kid is 8 years-old? Can I still do Primary Topics in a Jar?
You know your kid best! This activity has simplified questions around age-appropriate topics for a child in the Primary age. Your 8 year-old may find the questions to be easy to answer or too easy to answer!
It could be a great way to build their confidence before introducing the Puberty Topics in a Jar which is designed for kids between the ages of 8-11 years-old. Puberty Topics in a Jar is 30 Questions and Answers that are heavily focused around the physical and emotional changes that occur during puberty while also introducing the topics on sex and masturbation.
Learn more about Puberty Topics in a Jar here.
Do You Want ALL 3 Topics in a Jar Activities?
If you’ve got kids across the Primary, Intermediate, and Middle School age ranges - you can easily find all 3 Topics in a Jar activities inside Top Talks.
Top Talks video guide is for parents with kids aged 7+ and want to build up their confidence to have the following sex talks:
The Where do Babies Come From Talk (ages 4+)
The Sex Talk (ages 7+)
The Puberty Talk (ages 6+)
The Relationships Talk (ages 6+)
The Masturbation Talk (ages 7+)
The Online Safety Talk (ages 6+)
The Porn Talk (ages 10+)
& Top Talks includes ALL the Primary (ages 5-8), Puberty (ages 8-11), and Teen (12+) Topics in a Jar activities!
All 90 Q&A’s to help you age-appropriately have the sex talks!
Learn more about Top Talks Unlimited Access or 35 Day Access inside this FREE preview lesson.
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